Ok so I will full on admit that I like to people watch. Well that creates a huge problem when at the same time I spend 75% of my time at home away from people. Don't get me wrong, I don't hate people, I just have a dislike for idiocy. So I chose home rather then trying to come up with bail money all the time. I finally found an answer to my problem (no not a strait jacket, yet). I signed up for a couple free dating web sites (ok cupid, and POF) both of which are totally free with free emailing and no twisted tricks. So now I get to people watch while wearing my favorite toed pajamas in the privacy of my neighbors yard (free wifi). I know my neighbor doesn't mind me using his wifi (otherwise he would have put a password on it and taken his patio furniture inside at night). Oh back to the dating web sites, I have met a ton of great friends on those sites, most of which I'm still friends with to this day. I have only had to block 2 women, both of which I had to block on multiple sites one has made several fake accounts just to be evil. She is proof that demons walk the earth. Ok so here is what I look for right off the bat, a full picture from at least the knees up and preferably not there high school senior photo and they are 40 y/o. Here is a good rule of thumb, if you are 10 lbs heavier or cracked out lighter then your photo's then 1 of two things needs to happen, 1)Stair master 2) update that photo. Ok now on entering the profile if 1 or more photo's looks like a cleavage filled beer commercial, points against. If all of the photo's only show you from your neck up, points off. Now before you go thinking i'm superficial (duh so are you). Here is the deal, self conscience females have less sex appeal then confident females. Be proud of how you look, or do something about it. Now don't get me wrong, I totally understand the whole child birth thing and give mad props for the fact no man could ever endure that much pain and misery of carrying a child nine months and then forcing a watermelon sized thing out of your whohaa. As far as I'm concerned women get extra credit for that alone. Ok other things I watch out for is excessive hatred towards any ex or multiple exes. Obviously if thats the case, then this person has not woken up to the fact that "there is no such thing as a bad relationship, as long as you live through it or parole early). Every failure in life is a lesson that gets you one step closer to success. I promise you this much, for every finger you point outwards blaming someone else, is a repeat of the lesson you just failed to learn.
Ok has anyone else noticed the whole role reversal that happened? I actually kind of like it, being I'm a dominant alpha male. Strong confident women turn me on. Women are taking cheesy bathroom pics, taking pictures of there cars, bikes, boats, boobs, dogs and of course food porn. While men are whining and crying about just wanting to be held, and how women treat them like sex objects. My personal preference is to try and avoid sex on the first date, but have found women to be very persuading. Now here is the clicker, the one woman who agreed to abstaining from sex the first date, turned out to be the biggest game player. Women in Reno have warned me (not men) that the women were messed up. To be totally honest with you all, this town isn't half as bad as the town I just moved from. In that 1 1/2 horse po dunk sheep be scared Az. town only 2 out of 10 people are worth a shit. At least in Reno that number seems to bump up to a solid 6 out of 10 are good. So to me, this is actually a nice place.
Being as I have ocd and adhd and probably a few more abbreviations I refuse to take medication for I also notice trends. Like one week it will be all Virgo's, or Tauruses, or Aries, then Scorpio's, which i'm guessing has to do with planet alignments. I also notice a massive amount of females who are single working in the medical field. Now either every nurse at every hospital and doctor's office is either single, or someone is lying? Which brings me to my next big issue. The amount of women who are always on the prowl to upgrade (talk about the grass is always greener). People in general who can't be satisfied with the person there with is bottom line not satisfied with them self.
Here is a lifestyle that I used to practice back in High school before it had a name like "Polyamory", and have come to realize it may be the answer I have been looking for? I am a selfless giver by nature, which everyone seems to agree on lately. I will put forth the same effort helping an ex, a stranger, a friend, a current, and a relative. Everyone gets my everything, until they take it for granted. Jealousy seems to be a big killer of any relationship. Polyamory does away with jealousy, and helps to instill trust and confidence within a relationship. Now before you go judging the book by it's cover, there are many forms of polyamory. Me personally, have no interest in threesomes (not saying I wouldn't give it a try someday) just not on my bucket list. Now I love to flirt with people, because it makes them feel good inside (some people take my flirtatious nature to far). Show me a woman who has the confidence and trust to enter a crowded room apart from me, both of us knowing we are actively flirting with other people, but both of us are confident in knowing where we both end up at the end of the night. I like to call it working a room. Stealing quick eye contact with smirky smile=priceless.
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