finding someone special

I'm gonna keep this short tonight.  Men if you find a woman that laughs at your jokes, isn't critical or judgmental about you, Doesn't care how bad you look or smell, truly cares about you in a non psycho needy way, then either your looking at your mom, or the woman you should be with (lets hope it is not one in the same you sick fucks).  I highly recommend you treat that woman better or at least as good as she treats you.  Especially if she has already been through hell and back and still can be all these things without secretly plotting your demise or scoping your best friend.  Make her your friend first, then your lover, and don't ever let her go.  If you do, you will regret it for a very long time.  Don't take this woman for granted, don't ever cheat on her, and always treat her with the respect she deserves.  My advice comes from many losses in life, but also a great many founds.  What you will find is the older you get, the few and far between these rare gems come around.  Sometimes it's only once in a lifetime, other times a loss was just a wake up call  to finding someone better when you deserve it, never when you want it.  So dry your tears, for the ones that got away, otherwise you may miss the one right in front of you.